‘My Autistic Big Brother & Me takes you on a rollercoaster ride of highs and lows as it explores the raw and and challenging side of autism in adults. A brilliant and extremely personal documentary filmed over 4 years in the mountains of North Wales, that shines a light on the family and carers who make huge sacrifices to give a severely autistic man an unparalleled quality of life roaming the great outdoors, even to the detriment of their own.’
“As someone who has struggled their whole lives with mental wellness issues, who parents a child with a unique set of similar challenges, I found Michael Kay’s My Autistic Big Brother and Me to be an inspiring, moving and educational primer on the most basic nature of human relationships. Digging deeper, it’s a towering testament to love, patience and what it means to sit quietly and hold space with someone we love. Kay has underscored our need to love unconditionally in a world that seemingly won’t let us. We are mistakenly taught that to love is to fix each other’s pain. Perhaps that why so many of us feel like failures in our most important relationships? With Kay’s movie, the nature of which is an ‘unfixable’ challenge, he has redefined both how we should love, and the best way to make that an actionable bond.”
A Bit About Me
I'm a Welshman based in Paris, having spent the previous 6 years based out of New York City. I specialize in multi-media journalism and filmmaking, specifically across social impact stories as well as international conflict and risk-on zones. I worked across terrorism, national security & aviation for 20 years, as an assault helicopter pilot and strategic military planner in the British Military. As a correspondent and filmmaker, I've covered in-depth stories on national security, refugees, medicine, mental health, politics, tech, conservation, aviation, religion, and energy, broadcast on the BBC, CNN, ABC News, MSNBC, National Geographic, History Channel, Travel Channel, and Vogue.
My Story So Far
In my second career as a correspondent and filmmaker, along with national security and aviation I have also covered in depth, medical, mental health, political, conservation, religious, and energy-based stories broadcast on the BBC, CNN, ABC News, MSNBC, National Geographic, History Channel, Travel Channel, and Vogue. I am an accomplished correspondent, host, camera operator, writer and editor. And can operate as a correspondent or with a camera, at high altitudes being an experienced mountaineer, or sub-surface being a qualified SCUBA diver. In the last few years I have filmed in Iraq, Siberia, South Africa, Peru, Nicaragua, Namibia, Vietnam, Columbia, Japan, Kenya, Ethiopia, China, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, UAE, Oman, Lebanon, Kyrgyzstan, Europe, and the United States including Alaska.
My latest film for the BBC, My Autistic Big Brother & Me, I filmed and directed in the mountains of North Wales and spent 4 years writing and editing the initial 60 minute version. The 40 minute version aired on the BBC, and BBC iPlayer in early 2019.
In my first chapter, I spent 20 years flying and operating assault helicopters as well as strategic planning, in Her Majesty's Royal Air Force, serving on operational flying tours in Kosovo, Macedonia, Bosnia and Iraq, as well as strategy and diplomacy tours in Afghanistan, Sumatra (post tsunami), India and Africa. I quickly rose to Senior Officer status and spent my final years before military retirement as a military advisor within the UK's Ministry of Defense.
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